Sushma Kotecha

I qualified as Solicitor in January 1994. I decided to give up my ‘legal hat’ in March 2021 to start a new adventure and career path focusing on family mediation and coaching. On 1 July 2021 I launched ‘Holistic Family Mediation’ that evolved into ‘Holistic Family Mediation & Coaching’ in April 2023. An online private service to empower couples and individuals in conflict to make their own informed decisions about issues arising out of their separation/divorce and take control of their destiny to lead their best lives post separation/divorce.

Divorce and separation is not just a legal process; it is an emotional and psychological journey for all concerned. It can be devastating and debilitating. It’s how we manage our emotions and how we view life’s challenges/lessons and deal with them that will make and shape our future.

We all have a choice. Fight and hold onto past grievances that continue to adversely impact us or accept our fate and forgive/make peace to morph into new beings and new beginnings. This will serve us, our families and future generations well.

Trust me. I know this from my own personal journey and experience. I have remained friends with my ex- husband and left the past behind. This has allowed us to continue to share space and special times with our two wonderful children. This was a key objective.

Divorce is not failure; it takes courage and strength to realise that a relationship is no longer healthy and serving the purpose that it was originally intended. It takes even greater courage and strength to then take action and the first step to end the relationship/marriage. How you choose those steps and what choices you make will determine your future.

I believe a person’s emotional and psychological makeup during and after the trauma of separation and divorce must be considered in conjunction with the legal process to ensure people are empowered to take stock of their situation and make informed decisions when they are in the right frame of mind to best serve them and their children.

My mission is to inspire and empower separating couples and individuals to take stock and deal with all issues arising out of their separation in the least self-destructive way possible, out of court and via alternative dispute resolution options like, Holistic Family Mediation & Coaching. It’s a smarter, more dignified approach to separation and/or divorce. This will save both parties time, money and energy, which can be better utilised serving their own needs and the needs of their children.

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