Blogs

When “happily ever after” doesn’t fit: why it’s hard to decide whether to stay or leave

by Jennie Sutton

Clients can feel trapped between staying and leaving, not through indecision but because of fear, expectations and deeply held beliefs about relationships. Divorce coach, Jennie Sutton, explores how those pressures create paralysis, and how divorce coaching can help clients step back, gain clarity and make informed decisions. It shows that moving forward is less about certainty and more about understanding what truly matters.

The hidden risks of fertility tourism

by Nichola Bright

Fertility treatment in northern Cyprus has attracted UK patients with lower costs and fewer restrictions, but recent cases involving donor mix-ups have raised serious concerns about regulation and oversight. Nichola Bright explores the legal, ethical and emotional risks of treatment abroad, highlighting the importance of transparency, traceability and informed decision-making for prospective parents.

Child Focused Courts: the need for speed, but not at any cost

by Rebecca Hawkins

The national rollout of Child Focused Courts promises faster, more child-centred outcomes in private law cases, reducing delay and conflict. Early pilot results are positive, but concerns remain around resources, consistency and long-term sustainability. Rebecca Hawkins explores how the the model must balance speed with quality, ensure access to legal advice, and integrate non-court dispute resolution as a central, not secondary, pathway.

Pets on divorce and separation: a practical case for reform

by Emily Prince, Estella Newbold-Brown, Diane Matthews and Karis Nafte

This blog highlights the gap between the legal treatment of pets as property and their real significance in family life. Drawing on recent research, the independent Working Group on Pets on Divorce and Separation sets out a practical case for modest reform. It suggests that clear statutory criteria would support earlier resolution, reduce conflict, and better reflect families’ lived realities on separation.

Prepare for mediation or prepare to fail

by Laura Clapton

Hybrid mediation offers flexibility and greater client control but its success depends on commitment to the agreed timetable. Without preparation and active solicitor involvement, sessions can lose focus and become costly. In this post, Laura Clapton gives a clear message: treat mediation timetables with the same respect as court directions to ensure efficient, constructive outcomes.

Becoming a paralegal: navigating the road to becoming a legal professional

by Jessica Whiley

Practical experience is a crucial part of building a career in law, but the route can feel complex and uncertain. In this engaging personal blog, Jessica Whiley reflects on her journey into practice and the value of working as a paralegal. She highlights how hands-on experience, exposure to real cases and learning from talented colleagues have built her confidence and helped shape the kind of lawyer she hopes to be.

Consent before birth? Reflections on T v S [2025] EWHC 3581 (Fam)

by Kesha Pabari

In T v S [2025] EWHC 3581 (Fam) the High Court considered whether a parent can give valid consent to a child’s relocation before the child is born. Kesha Pabari acted for the respondent mother in this case and examines the court’s approach to consent under Article 13(a), the realities of parental discussions during pregnancy, and the wider context of Hague Convention defences.

Eid for separated or divorced parents

by Aysha Chouhdary

Eid ul Fitr is one of the most significant celebrations for Muslim families, but its exact date is only confirmed once the new moon is sighted, which can make planning difficult. In this informative blog for Resolution members working with Muslim clients, Aysha Chouhdary reflects on the challenges this can create for separated families and the importance of communication, flexibility and cultural understanding.

Returning from maternity leave: a reflection

by Shaili Gohil-Desai

Shaili Gohil-Desai of Burgess Mee reflects on the emotional and practical realities of returning to work as a family lawyer after maternity leave. Balancing excitement, guilt and adjustment, she shares how support from colleagues, family and other working mothers helped ease the transition and normalise the evolving experience of combining career and parenthood.